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I feel Sharon needs a break from Nick

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  • madluv4ya
    Senior Board Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 1744
    #1

    I feel Sharon needs a break from Nick

    I get they're friendly exes and are also friends, but he's taking every opportunity to glom onto her. He's annoying me by constantly trying to "be there" for her. It's like she can't have a moment alone. I get that we all process grief differently and some would want to be alone while others would want to have people around. It just seems like she can't wipe her a** without him asking if she needs help?.
    Thoughts?
    Let me have 'em. Fire away.
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  • Theresa_Fan
    Aspiring soap scribe
    • Jul 2007
    • 65059
    #2
    I disagree because Sharon herself said that without Nick she wouldn't have been able to get through. So out of her own mouth, she doesn't need a break from him. It's good to have support from close people when you lose a spouse. If Sharon wants to be alone, she can tell Nick like she did with her going to Miami.

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    • Angeldar
      #2.1
      Angeldar commented
      May 18, 2022, 06:12 PM
      Editing a comment
      I totally agree with this. No more needs to be said.
    • Amethyst57
      #2.2
      Amethyst57 commented
      May 18, 2022, 07:09 PM
      Editing a comment
      Theresa_Fan Sharon couldn't get through it without Nick because hell, he's always there in her face, not allowing her to mourn. So of course she's going to feel like he helped her get through it. I agree its good to have support, its just not good to smother someone when they are trying to grieve/mourn...which is what Nick is doing.
    • zenmaster5
      #2.3
      zenmaster5 commented
      May 18, 2022, 08:43 PM
      Editing a comment
      I agree as well and I also agree with Angeldar, no more needs to be said.
  • fracabell
    Executive Poster
    • Mar 2009
    • 3870
    #3
    I am sorry, I know Sharon is grieving, but I want my Shick back today. I wouldn't mind of Shick got back together tomorrow. It is long overdue. My Shick loving heart is beating so hard right now.

    I hope Nick continues to be there for Sharon, his best friend, the mother of his children, the woman he was married to for 10 long years, and i hope they have fun together, and fall back in love.

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    • Camille78
      #3.1
      Camille78 commented
      May 18, 2022, 05:58 PM
      Editing a comment
      I love Sharon and Nick together, too. Just love them. They can never pair Sharon or Nick with anyone else better. They were a couple made in heaven, and I'd love to see them back together forever tomorrow, too.
    • zenmaster5
      #3.2
      zenmaster5 commented
      May 18, 2022, 08:45 PM
      Editing a comment
      I do too! Nick and Sharon go way back of course he's going to be there for her the way that he is. As long as Sharon is fine with it, so am I.
  • TooFree4You
    Contract Poster
    • Jan 2019
    • 3380
    #4
    Nick and Sharon have only the past to connect them and that past for the two decades or so has NOT been good. Nick inevitably ends back up with Phyllis. They will have the same ‘obstacle’ they always do. Adam Adam Adam. Adam breathes and Nick is ticked. I don’t think Sharon has been in love with Nick in years. He’s just there.

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    • TunerEyes
      Soap Addict
      • Dec 2014
      • 5608
      #5
      Sorry Nick has hurt Sharon in so many ways over so many times that when he said today that he’s always there for her I nearly choked. Of anyone including Adam, I think Nick has hurt her the most and deepest. Nick sees himself as a damsel-in-distress rescuer. It makes him feel good. Sharon told the girls she was tired, had a long day and wanted to go home. She didn’t ask Nick to drive her home or come in to stay. I know for Nick seeing Mariah get married brought back regrets about Cassie, going against Sharon’s wishes that night and then about how he handled Cassie’s death by hooking up with Phyllis and betraying Sharon. Guilt.

      While Sharon has worked on herself and become a stronger person, she’s still very compassionate and I think still a pushover letting others (and this included Rey) telling her what she should do. Of course she would be appreciative of Nick’s help and tell him so but she looks to hold back telling others her wants and needs and being forceful if she needs to be. I wish Nick would give Sharon breathing room to get through her loss of Rey by herself and let her call him if she wants to see Nick. I get it, he’s without a woman now.
      Last edited by TunerEyes; May 18, 2022, 04:26 PM.

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      • DallasGal
        Aspiring soap scribe
        • Jun 2008
        • 17111
        #6
        Sharon has voice and can use it to tell Nick *if* she needs space. Isn’t this what Sharon would counsel her clients to do?

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        • zenmaster5
          #6.1
          zenmaster5 commented
          May 18, 2022, 08:47 PM
          Editing a comment
          She sure would DallasGal. If Sharon thought Nick was too much in her space, I have no doubt she would tell him so and he would respect her wishes and go because they have that kind of relationship.
      • littleliz
        I Let My Evil Twin Post For Me
        • Nov 2016
        • 8013
        #7
        I don't think they should rush into anything but you could tell Sharon felt at peace with
        him there making her tea. They can date as friends and wait to see what happens.
        Sharon unfortunately needs a man in her life. And Nick without a woman? IDK
        I'm sure Sharon will be alone a lot now that Maiah and Tessa are off to Paris.

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        • stopthefall
          Scriptwriter
          • Jan 2008
          • 5317
          #8
          I think they love each other they just haven’t been in love with each other for a long time. They make really excellent friends.

          I think she does appreciate Nick being there but I also think she really wants some space. Who was she honest to about that? Adam, all you have to do is go back to their conversation.

          Sharon should be allowed to work through her grieving and the elements of it that have to do with guilt. Now this being a soap that’s not gonna be that long but I think they’ll give her a few months.
          Hopefully they give Nick something right away. There are some interesting avenues they could go down with him. Chemistry avenues.

          Ultimately I would love for them to let these two be the very good friends that they are. That would allow these two characters to have stories and not be put out to pasture. Just my opinion of course.

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          • Texin
            #8.1
            Texin commented
            May 19, 2022, 10:36 AM
            Editing a comment
            I agree with your POV. I like them best as really, really good friends. But that's it! And I've been thinking this for over 24 years.
        • catster
          Board Regular
          • Sep 2020
          • 970
          #9
          I think they will always love each other. First loves and all but I don't think they are in love and haven't been in a long time. They are just so dull. I think Sharon loves Adam and will settle with Nick because she does not like to be alone.

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          • mariem202
            Contract Poster
            • Aug 2011
            • 2736
            #10
            Sharon Case was asked how Sharon felt about her family supporting her after Rey's death, and she said she was grateful for the support but she felt like they were overhandling her, which didn't help with her recovery. When she was with Adam, the character Sharon also said everyone was treating her like she was so fragile.

            Adam said he wouldn,t, which is why she was able to fully break down with him and nobody else, and really express all her feelings.

            Same thing happened when she had cancer. Her family and loved ones mean well but they overcrowd her
            Last edited by mariem202; May 18, 2022, 06:12 PM.

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            • catster
              #10.1
              catster commented
              May 20, 2022, 05:47 PM
              Editing a comment
              Nick has always treated her like she was fragile.. part of why I think Adam is her true love. He treats her like she matters and that her opinion matters and that she won't break.
          • Angeldar
            Scriptwriter
            • Aug 2011
            • 5367
            #11
            I think they are like Jack and Phyllis. No need to rush but enjoy each other and depend on each other. When the time is right, they will know it. I'm enjoyin g both of these couples more than anything on the show right now.

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            • Emerald Greens
              Aspiring soap scribe
              • Feb 2006
              • 40959
              #12
              Nick has no one so I think it’s why he’s going to what is comfortable it’s not appealing to me when people get together just because no one else is interested in you at the moment. I am sure he cares about Sharon but he’s hurt her and she’s hurt him as well. Why ruin a good thing ? As several have pointed out they seem less in love than the familiar and comfortable.

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              • Texin
                #12.1
                Texin commented
                May 19, 2022, 01:32 PM
                Editing a comment
                Nick bounces back to/with the person he's previously been with. Sharon's up. When that's done, he'll bounce back to Phyllis. I wish he'd bounce back to Chelsea. She's the one taking Rey's death the hardest (it seems) and Nick has proven time and time again that he can forgive transgressions from previous loves. I personally think Sharon's outgrown Nick.
            • mikewriter
              Recurring Poster
              • Jun 2004
              • 342
              #13
              Sharon needs Nick. They have a past and a history. She is leaning on her friend, and she should continue to do so. SHICK FOREVER!

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              • Amethyst57
                Recurring Poster
                • Sep 2018
                • 393
                #14
                Originally posted by madluv4ya View Post
                I get they're friendly exes and are also friends, but he's taking every opportunity to glom onto her. He's annoying me by constantly trying to "be there" for her. It's like she can't have a moment alone. I get that we all process grief differently and some would want to be alone while others would want to have people around. It just seems like she can't wipe her a** without him asking if she needs help?.
                Thoughts?
                Let me have 'em. Fire away.
                This is exactly how I feel...like damn, let the woman breath, let her mourn. They (Nick, Mariah, Faith and Noah) needs to stop treating Sharon like she is some fragile china doll...its very irritating. Sharon has become a strong woman, let her use her strength to get through this tough time. Its hard for her to mourn when someone (Nick) is constantly in her face, hovering over her like she's going to break at any given moment if Nick is not around...sheesh.

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                • catster
                  #14.1
                  catster commented
                  May 19, 2022, 04:37 AM
                  Editing a comment
                  They all treat her like she is a weak needy idiot. Sharon needs to get away from all of them.. they treat her like she cannot handle life at all.. I would hate to be treated like she is treated.
              • zenmaster5
                Soap Addict
                • May 2017
                • 6202
                #15
                Sharon would fall apart if she didn't have Nick to lean on. I am so happy Nick is there for Sharon through her grief. When Sharon said again that she didn't think she could get through this without Nick's support, that told me that she is grateful for his presence and so am I. Nick knows Sharon very well. He knows what she needs probably better than she does right now and he is just being that support that she can rely on no matter what. I thought it was so beautiful and sweet when Nick offered to make the tea and stay awhile with her.

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                • Texin
                  #15.2
                  Texin commented
                  May 19, 2022, 10:42 AM
                  Editing a comment
                  Sharon would not "fall apart". She'd handle the grieving on her own. She DOES need family support with mundane aspects throughout this, but her family cannot grieve for her. She's got to get through this process on her own. No one else can feel the specifics of grief for her, nor can they buffer those feelings in order to soften the pain.
                • zenmaster5
                  #15.3
                  zenmaster5 commented
                  May 19, 2022, 08:01 PM
                  Editing a comment
                  amethyst, there's nothing wrong with Sharon falling apart at all. I understand she just lost her husband and falling apart is part of the grieving process. I made the comment because it seems that when Nick is around, Sharon seems at peace. When she speaks of Rey with Nick, she's smiling and happy and I just happen to love seeing that under the circumstances is all. I am sure in Sharon's alone time when she's in her bedroom, the tears fall heavy and I get that. I lost my sister not too long ago and I fall apart often in my alone time but when I have my family and friends around me, they help me keep it together something I appreciate so much.
                • zenmaster5
                  #15.4
                  zenmaster5 commented
                  May 19, 2022, 08:11 PM
                  Editing a comment
                  Texin, may be you are right. She may just keep it together and not fall apart. You are absolutely right about her family not being able to grieve for her and the support of family is needed during these times of loss. I just don't see Nick being there the many times that he is as a big deal. He's being supportive to someone he cares a great deal about in her time of loss which I think is very sweet. Whether she falls apart or not, Sharon seems to really enjoy having Nick there and that's what matters in my opinion
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