Uh sorry Li but what happened to Finn is not because of the Forresters but because

[TaySean]

He have a psycho mother he so desperately wanted in his life that he almost lost Steffy over it, and then his life.

If Anything it's Steffy and the Forresters who got stuck with that psycho again because of Finn's connection to her and his need for a binky from his psycho mommy that compromised had to be made to make him feel better.

Whatever Li. I felt sorry for you but I'm getting weary of your mommy bates vibe. It's Steffy's luck to be stuck with two psycho mother in laws.

[tabbygail]

Thank you!! This had nothing to do with Steffy and her world. Your husband couldn’t keep it in his pants and had a child with a total psycho, lied to you and your son for 20+ years about it, and Finn couldn’t see past the end of his nose to what Sheila really was. None of that is on Steffy or the Forresters. That’s all on the Finnegan men.

[creativequeen]

I am confused, so the actions of Jack and Finn warranted Sheila to pull a gun and shoot Steffy and Finn? Really?

[Emerald Greens]

I felt that was her thinking and her motive . I knew she didn’t want Finn around the Forrester’s. If anything this is on Shelia and Jack and Finn wanting to get close to Shelia.
Cry me a River.

[Teaday13]

Sheila could have come forward to Finn at any time, but she chose now when Finn married a Forrester.
Li is losing it. Great lady to start but this has turned her.

[Camsey P]

What happened to Finn was because of his father.

If her husband was not so frisky, then Finn would not have happened.

She would have no reason to commit a felony by faking his death and taking him home to nurse him back to death.

I cannot blame the Forresters for any of this as they had no control over who Finn's birth mother was.

This is all on Li's husband who is noticeably absent!

[demoslider]

Li is coming across as unhinged. I wonder if they will flip the script on Sheila and Li as they did with Sheila and Maggie years ago in order to redeem Sheila somehow.

[afinebalance]

I agree but it seems like Li is thinking of keeping Finn away from the Forresters, even if he recovers; maybe take him far away; maybe he'll have memory loss. She does seem to think that Finn got caught up in the Forresters baggage, blaming their celebrity type public lives, and wants to protect him.

[creativequeen]

How is this any of Finn's fault?? Truly. Because the majority of the time he did stay away from Sheila and told her that they cannot have a relationship unless Steffy approved.

If we going to blame Finn, then should we blame Steffy? Steffy went to confront Sheila multiple times INCLUDING the time she went to the alley to confront Sheila when Finn had told Steffy, to speak to Thomas about the bottle switch. If Sheila was so dangerous as Steffy claimed she was, then why did Steffy continue to antagonize her knowing Sheila could snap at any moment?

I am not blaming Steffy, at all, but I just think there should be only one person held accountable for these events, and it is Sheila.

Li is a grieving mother, so I do not blame her for being irrational at this point, because in her POV, Finn was living a good life before the wedding/Forresters.

But we should all know this is on Sheila and only Sheila.

[*Queenie*]

How is this any of Finn's fault?? Truly. Because the majority of the time he did stay away from Sheila and told her that they cannot have a relationship unless Steffy approved.

If we going to blame Finn, then should we blame Steffy? Steffy went to confront Sheila multiple times INCLUDING the time she went to the alley to confront Sheila when Finn had told Steffy, to speak to Thomas about the bottle switch. If Sheila was so dangerous as Steffy claimed she was, then why did Steffy continue to antagonize her knowing Sheila could snap at any moment?

I am not blaming Steffy, at all, but I just think there should be only one person held accountable for these events, and it is Sheila.

Li is a grieving mother, so I do not blame her for being irrational at this point, because in her POV, Finn was living a good life before the wedding/Forresters.

But we should all know this is on Sheila and only Sheila.

Finn can be blamed for this. He has a part in all of this. He never cut ties with Sheila and went behind Steffys back more than once. He was warned repeatedly about Sheila’s history.

Li was a doormat for her husband and Finn was like “mommy Li who?” He was all about mommy Sheila.

You can know someone is dangerous and not be a coward and bow down to them just because they are capable of heinous acts…it’s called having a backbone.

If Finn had just once said “Sheila you aren’t my mother and your criminal history is too much for me. I find it suspect that you come to me now when I’ve married Steffy…I don’t want you near me or my family ever.” Sheila would of backed off…

Instead he let Steffy fight that battle like a wuss. While he stood on the side wringing his hands ? so Sheila felt that Finn was being forced against his will to cut ties because that’s what he led her to believe. Sheila in her mind was fighting to see a son who wanted her as much as she wanted him…because that was the impression Finn gave. Finn also made Steffy the scapegoat in why a relationship couldn’t happen.

So yes Finn is. A big part of why this happened. I hold him and Sheila equal partners in the chaos.

Li should get over herself because she’s looking just a crazy as mama Sheila.

[jaderw]

She is right though. If he didn't get caught up with Steffy and her baggage, Sheila wouldn't have come back. She came back because she saw him marrying a Forrester as her way into that family. If he was marrying a random Mary Sue, Sheila wouldn't have cared enough to come back.

[creativequeen]

Finn can be blamed for this. He has a part in all of this. He never cut ties with Sheila and went behind Steffys back more than once. He was warned repeatedly about Sheila’s history.

Li was a doormat for her husband and Finn was like “mommy Li who?” He was all about mommy Sheila.

You can know someone is dangerous and not be a coward and bow down to them just because they are capable of heinous acts…it’s called having a backbone.

If Finn had just once said “Sheila you aren’t my mother and your criminal history is too much for me. I find it suspect that you come to me now when I’ve married Steffy…I don’t want you near me or my family ever.” Sheila would of backed off…

Instead he let Steffy fight that battle like a wuss. While he stood on the side wringing his hands ? so Sheila felt that Finn was being forced against his will to cut ties because that’s what he led her to believe. Sheila in her mind was fighting to see a son who wanted her as much as she wanted him…because that was the impression Finn gave. Finn also made Steffy the scapegoat in why a relationship couldn’t happen.

So yes Finn is. A big part of why this happened. I hold him and Sheila equal partners in the chaos.

Li should get over herself because she’s looking just a crazy as mama Sheila.

That BOLDED part is inherently what I disagree with. Sheila would have NEVER left, no matter what Finn said or did.

I highly doubt if Finn had taken Steffy's aggressive approach, she would have left him alone. We saw after the Sinn wedding, that Sheila laughed at herself, and said along the lines, that now that I have a connection to the Forrester family, I am never leaving. She would have NEVER backed down regardless then. No one was stopping her and she was dedicated.

After Sheila shot Finn, and left him to bleed and die, did Sheila escape town?? Was the guilt too much for her to bear with and decided to leave town? Nope. In fact, she stayed in town and still wanted a relationship with Hayes which is how Steffy got her to confess. So even with Finn being "dead", she still wanted to be part of the Forrester family and did not leave them alone.

After a certain time in that alley, maybe Steffy should have just left especially with how aggressive Sheila was becoming? If Steffy s aware of her history; then she just did not deal with it correctly. Yet, no matter how I feel about how Steffy behaved that night, that still did not warrant Sheila to pull a gun, which is why I think Finn, Taylor, Brooke, Ridge, and Thomas etc., should all be afforded the same defence and excuse.

Well, then with that logic, Finn HAD a backbone in that alley because he took a bullet for his wife, and for that, I will never blame him for what went down. The reason why Finn was in the alley is that he recognize that Steffy was in grave danger at Sheila's hands and was trying to go to her and save her life. This is exactly what he did.

Li is nothing like Sheila. Finn is not responsible for any of this. Steffy is not responsible for this. The only person responsible for the shooting is the SHOOTER.

[kendallalways]

While no Forrester bears any responsibility for what happened to Finn; Li isn't wrong that being involved with the Forresters is what got Finn killed I guess.... Prior to him marrying into the Forrester family, Sheila didn't give a crap about Finn or want to be in his life. So, wanting to be part of the Forrester family herself had Sheila using Finn as a means culminating in her murdering him in cold blood.

[tv_junkie_123]

Li is half right. The Forrestors are not responsible but if Finn didn't marry a Forrester Sheila wouldn't have shown up. She had years to show up but only chose to after Finn/Steffy became a thing.

So I guess in Li's mind if Finn is kept away from the Forrestors that will keep him safe from Sheila. Its misguided and messsed up but for now she is in control. My guess is once Finn wakes up she won't stop him from seeing Steffy but until then she is going to keep him isolated. Big question where is Jack in all of this. His son died and he has no questions on where his wife disappears to.

[Boldfan4ever]

i dont blame Li, she is riddled with grief.

[kirok9]

He have a psycho mother he so desperately wanted in his life that he almost lost Steffy over it, and then his life.

If Anything it's Steffy and the Forresters who got stuck with that psycho again because of Finn's connection to her and his need for a binky from his psycho mommy that compromised had to be made to make him feel better.

Whatever Li. I felt sorry for you but I'm getting weary of your mommy bates vibe. It's Steffy's luck to be stuck with two psycho mother in laws.

It reminds me of the old TV show Bonanza - everything was the Cartwrights' fault, just like everything is the Forresters' fault
- your son got shot? - damn Cartwrights
- your cows are sick? - damn Cartwrights
- stubbed your toe? - damn Cartwrights