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I'm beginning to wonder if Ben might be better with Gabi

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  • CincyLady
    Aspiring soap scribe
    • Sep 2005
    • 13619

    I'm beginning to wonder if Ben might be better with Gabi

    Since everyone in Salem is against Ben and Ciara and Ciara doesn't seem mature enough or strong enough to follow through on her decisions, why not go a different direction. Ben has had a rough past and so has Gabi, both are beautiful people and Gabi is definitely more mature than Ciara - and a time zone away from Hope. I just like Ben and want him with someone with whom he can find success. I didn't like Ciara's taunting about Chad being such a good guy and such a great father and "are you jealous". Not working for me. I don't post on this board anymore but just wanted to offer another option. I have to assume the writers plan to redeem these characters - or use one to redeem the other maybe. jmo
  • AllBoHope
    Soap Addict
    • Jun 2011
    • 5930

    #2
    Originally posted by CincyLady View Post
    Since everyone in Salem is against Ben and Ciara and Ciara doesn't seem mature enough or strong enough to follow through on her decisions, why not go a different direction. Ben has had a rough past and so has Gabi, both are beautiful people and Gabi is definitely more mature than Ciara - and a time zone away from Hope. I just like Ben and want him with someone with whom he can find success. I didn't like Ciara's taunting about Chad being such a good guy and such a great father and "are you jealous". Not working for me. I don't post on this board anymore but just wanted to offer another option. I have to assume the writers plan to redeem these characters - or use one to redeem the other maybe. jmo
    GREAT idea and find another guy for Ciara who brings out HER best - her strengths/positive traits as Bo & Hope's daughter who, IMO,, would NEVER be attracted to a serial killer!

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    • Princessnyla
      Board Regular
      • Jul 2018
      • 612

      #3
      Well first off I love Gabi but her and Ben wouldn’t work , also Ciara has always thought highly of Chad, fact is Coara is twenty one log course she’s immature & Ben is at time immature as well , He is finding success with Ciara . She wasn’t taunting him by saying chads a good father she was speaking on how she’s seen him with his kids & he was jealous he admitted that

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      • Elle23276
        Board Regular
        • Aug 2018
        • 1025

        #4
        Yuck. The magic is CIN. Nothing else will do. But yes, Ciara is a world class waffler. Cincy, have you listened to the TV Source Podcast for Dec. 31st? CIN will not be apart long.
        Last edited by Elle23276; January 5, 2019, 02:08 PM.

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        • Nick'sGirl
          Nick'sGirl commented
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          I don't see the magic yet but i haven't seen a redemption story either. Where is the self loathing. Where is the man who should believe he isn't good enough but she keeps trying to make him believe he is. This whole couple has been rushed with only using Hope as angst

        • Elle23276
          Elle23276 commented
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          I don't understand your reply to my statement. I was referring STRICTLY to the chemistry between two actors/characters. I didn't delve into redemption at all, because the subject of the thread was a possible hookup with a character other than the one he's romantically interested in currently. So I'll state it more clearly.....Ben with Gabi is a dogsh*t idea....clear enough?
      • AllBoHope
        Soap Addict
        • Jun 2011
        • 5930

        #5
        Originally posted by Elle23276 View Post
        Yuck. The magic is CIN. Nothing else will do. But yes, Ciara is a world class waffler. Cincy, have you listed to the TV Source Podcast for Dec. 31st? CIN will not be apart long.
        That's a no-brainer IMO but don't see any "magic" in a romantic serial killer personally! Not caring what the writers & others like - just not my taste at all! LOTS of other options for Ciara that I'd invest in (and a significant number of others as well), so yes, "something else WOULD definitely do"!!

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        • Elle23276
          Elle23276 commented
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          In your opinion. My opinion obviously differs from yours. CIN is definitely my taste.
      • Princessnyla
        Board Regular
        • Jul 2018
        • 612

        #6
        Also how’s Ciara’s is waffer when Ben is the one end things

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        • BBDaysBabe
          Board Regular
          • Jul 2017
          • 1100

          #7
          Gabi doesn't belong with Ben or Stefan. She belongs with the man she wants.

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          • lovelydtc
            lovelydtc commented
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            Even if the man hates her guts and want her in prison? As to the topic of this thread, yea put her with the serial killer, it makes more sense than him with a naive Ciera who says dumb things like how can you work for Stefan when he did horrible things to my family; speaking to Ben who did worse to her family. Geezus, at least Gabi will hopefully not make excuses for Ben and they can both be evil together. The true Bonnie and Clyde.

          • canislupwnus
            canislupwnus commented
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            If you are referring to Chad, that ship has sailed a long time ago. I used to ship Cabi because they were hot when they were feuding. I could tolerate his emotional abuse of her in 2012 but at some point enough is enough!

          • BBDaysBabe
            BBDaysBabe commented
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            Whomever she wants. Whether that person is Chad or another man she should be with the person she gives her heart to. That man should be someone who respects and adores her.
        • 50yearfan
          Board Regular
          • May 2015
          • 1286

          #8
          The future is CIN, they will make it.

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          • TamJonFan
            Executive Poster
            • Aug 2005
            • 4000

            #9
            I don't know if they belong together but they sure would look good together since they are both very attractive people IMO

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            • Abby_fan
              Aspiring soap scribe
              • Jun 2015
              • 10832

              #10
              Ben and Ciara oozes chemistry and look so darn beautiful together but I am beginning to get off this ship. Ciara seems too young for Ben and not ready to handle his past or his present. Ben is who he is and Ciara wants someone else; it seems. But maybe they can work it out. A serial killer and the girl next door with a police commissioner for a mom just doesn’t gel well.

              If Ben has to lose his edge and go back to being sugary sweet/boring, then he may do better with a bad girl like Gabi. I don’t know. Ben 1.0 was soooooo boring. But 2.0 Ben was entertaining and my this Ben 3.0 is everything.

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              • Elle23276
                Elle23276 commented
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                I’m wondering if the Johannesburg visit will change Ciara. I hope so. I agree, she is presenting way too young. But I’m willing to wait a few months longer, since I’ve hung around this long.
            • Abby_fan
              Aspiring soap scribe
              • Jun 2015
              • 10832

              #11
              I loved how Ben’s face was during that conversation. I think I will stay on the CIn ship and just be patient. I can’t imagine Ben being this good with anyone else.

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              • soapfan6
                Senior Board Member
                • Mar 2010
                • 2276

                #12
                I dont think ben should be in a relationship with anyone right now. His only focus should be himself but where is the story in that so i understand. The problem with Ben is he still has some demons in him. Look at his face when ciara was speaking of chad and thomas. He looked like he was about to snap but applaud him for now doing so. He pretty much said she doesnt want to see him jealous which translated to me that he knows he will go back to that place if he is put in that position again Ciara better be careful here. He will become attached to her and once he falls in love its a wrap, it's going to be hard for her to end things (if she ever wants to) and move on.

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                • soapjunkie1987
                  soapjunkie1987 commented
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                  Except spoilers say it's actually BEN that breaks up with her, which is progress in itself for him.

                • Elle23276
                  Elle23276 commented
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                  It does, soapjunkie? Geez, she's been dumped twice in two months? And what if she's pregnant....I dunno. Poor Ciara, her luck hasn't changed much.
              • littlehawk
                Day Player
                • Jul 2017
                • 246

                #13
                Unfortunately Gabi is not right for Ben. She has her own qualities that would fit with someone like Stefan but her and J.J. are good together and I’d like to see them back together. She was good with Eli too. Ciara brings out vulnerability and the soft side of Ben that wants to be good and repent and that is where the strong following of Cinners comes from, she softens his rough edges and makes him the man he really wants to be. She’s younger than him yes, but sometimes she has more of the maturity than he does. Sometimes when he’s with her he seems to regress a little maturity(in a good way, possibly a lost innocence of growing up the way he did). I used to say she was a waffler too but it’s hard for both of them. He has a mental illness that will never go away and the closer and deeper they get into their relationship it’ll her battling it with him too. She’s not naive about his past and she’s fighting the negativity from her family for both of them. With the Chad talk, yes it upset him but she shouldn’t have to censor herself because he’ll get upset neither should he have to do the same when he spoke of Stefan. They listen to each other and they are going to have disagreements and they are going to rise above it. They are at the point they don’t know where one of them begins or the other ends.

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                • lagirl
                  Soap Addict
                  • Nov 2006
                  • 5561

                  #14
                  Hope would not have anything to do if Ben moved on to Gabi. Hope would say Gabi and Ben deserve each other.

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                  • backheidi
                    Executive Poster
                    • Jan 2008
                    • 4464

                    #15
                    Ben can do better! And there just is no chemistry!

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