I agree with you, Erinnicole. His lack of emotion and coldness at the news really stunned me. I guess he's trying to protect himself from feeling all the hurt all over again. If there is a season 3, I would like the writers to address his feelings toward Pam. It would be a good source of angst for Ann and him to have him realize he was not completely over Pam and is mourning her again. I agree that Pam was the love of his life. This was OOC for Bobby, IMO.